Relationships to Others

I will share my own experiences in life. Relationships to Others might be with our boy friend, friends, relatives, family, colleagues, etc. I have 3 things need to share:-

First, always Appreciate their presence. Everyone that passes to us might be temporary. Always leave a mark to them in goodness. Choose to be their support in times they need you.

Second, Listen to them. Hearing their circumstances in life help them to feel love and comforted. It gives them hope to live more in life and be motivated.

Lastly, do not Expect and be Patient. Helping others and being with them all the time will might become a habit. Always remember that each person has its free will of choice. If you think being used and mistreated just let it be. It is not easy but it leads to a good relationship. You can save whatever you have together. Think positively. Talk to him/her when you are emotionally stable.

Relationship to others might give us confusion, at first we are deeply connected and happy. Then suddenly everything change. There we're jealousy and differences arises. There we're times of arguments and hurtful things been said and done. But the importance is whatever it is. We learn to grow and learn from it. It is wise enough not to break the bridge between you and them. It takes time to learn and practice your emotions to accept and live in the present.

Always be grateful. :) God bless everyone. :)

Life in Abroad

From my own experienced, my expectations before when I was in our hometown that life in abroad is very wonderful and full of mystery. Which is true... that time when I step down to airport, I was amused by the cleanliness of the place. At first since my language is different from other People. I have a hard time to understand them. Because I felt like I am in the other planet. hahaha. :) I slowly get use to it by speaking clearly and slowly. And adding some confident. :)

Second for the food I have to adapt... the way my mom cook is far from the outside food court. At First I felt like vomiting as some have no taste at all. But then, I have other choice but to cook at home. Until I use to it to eat outside and sometimes cook with my own dish. At least its clean and delicious. :)

Lastly is the culture, it is a first world country so how they behave is different from my place. They are very assertive and direct. They have their feelings but they keep strong mentally. But they have a very bad tempered but it also depends to a person. Some are soft, harsh and helpful. Some may taken you for granted if you let them bully you. But you still have to be humble and gain some respect. If they doesn't respect you at least you respect yourself. That is more important than what they think about you. It is not easy, but give some time for yourself to grow. :)

That's all I can share for today. 3 guide for your life abroad. :) Always Be Happy :)